Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Father, thank You for a wonderful day! Thank You for Your word. Thank You for a day that was laid back a bit more than usual. Thank You for Your presence with us.
John 10:32-42 (<<click here to read the passage)
I have read too many books, seen too many shows and movies, and seen enough of life to realize that what one says regarding themselves only goes as far as their actions agree. Some may be fooled into believing people are who they say they are but eventually their deeds will show the reality of their being.
A phrase with which we are all familiar is, “Actions speak louder than words.”
A twist that usually doesn’t produce the fruit parents speaking to their children desire is “Do as I say, not as I do.” It is often the case that, children are more prone to feel allowed to do what the parent does, even if the parent tells them not to do it.
Scripture admonishes that actions speak louder as well. The Apostle John states in his first epistle,
Little children (believers, dear ones), let us not love [merely in theory] with word or with tongue [giving lip service to compassion], but in action and in truth [in practice and in sincerity, because practical acts of love are more than words]. 1 John 3:18 AMP
Jesus said as much in Matthew 21:28-32,
“But what do you think about this? A man with two sons told the older boy, ‘Son, go out and work in the vineyard today.’ The son answered, ‘No, I won’t go,’ but later he changed his mind and went anyway. Then the father told the other son, ‘You go,’ and he said, ‘Yes, sir, I will.’ But he didn’t go.
“Which of the two obeyed his father?”
They replied, “The first.”
Then Jesus explained his meaning: “I tell you the truth, corrupt tax collectors and prostitutes will get into the Kingdom of God before you do. 32 For John the Baptist came and showed you the right way to live, but you didn’t believe him, while tax collectors and prostitutes did. And even when you saw this happening, you refused to believe him and repent of your sins. NLT
Time and time again, Jesus’ actions paralleled the words He spoke. Never did one contradict the other. Many other players in the Gospel narratives, could not lay claim to that truth. Everyone from the Jewish hierarchy clear through Jesus’ disciples was guilty of the deeds betraying their words.
Who can forget Peter’s words to Jesus in Matthew 26:33?
Peter replied to Him, “Though they all fall away because of You [and doubt and disown You], I will never fall away!” NLT
In just a matter of days, Peter fell away and fell hard.
Lord Jesus, I am no less guilty. I may have the best of intentions in many areas of my life – at home, at work, in the church…and most importantly with You – but more often than I would care to admit, they end up being just empty utterances. May I strive to live up to what my mouth proclaims, Lord. May I diligently endeavor to follow in Your footsteps. Amen.
Aug 1st, 2021, Sun, 8:37 pm
Talking to a Wall
Father, tonight my body and my mind are weary. It has been a busy week of coming and going. Speak through my weariness. May Your word come through loud and clear, despite it all.
John 10:22-31 (<<click here to read the passage)
We all know people that are just plain hard to talk to, at least on some topics. Often their minds are set (in concrete it seems!) and absolutely nothing you say is going to change that fact. People say of individuals like that, “It’s like talking to a brick wall!”
Talk of politics can easily have this result – no matter which side you are on. The same goes for COVID-19 protocol, abortion, alcohol use, etc., etc. I am a person who does not like conflict in the least and on many fronts, I just don’t talk about certain things because all it accomplishes is building walls between myself and others. And at that point, I really am talking to a brick wall! Division doesn’t help us in any way. All it does is give us labels to slap on the foreheads of others – you’re wrong and I’m right!
How can I get God’s love to shine through a brick wall? The walls have to come down! Some may think I am ineffective but if the walls are not erected in the first place, my objective is to splashing God’s love all about and letting Him take care of all the other things!
A portion of today’s passage reads,
So the Jews surrounded Him and began saying to Him, “How long are You going to keep us in suspense? If You are [really] the Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed), tell us so plainly and openly.” v24 AMP
At this point, I think Jesus would have wanted to bang His head against the brick wall! He had said as much many times. He had shown them over and over again! But regardless of his verbal and physical proclamations, they refused to listen. Jesus diligently worked to bring others into an understanding but He, for one, did not avoid conflict. He said what needed saying.
So, once again, in response to their query, He spoke the truth.
“I have already told you, and you don’t believe me. The proof is the work I do in my Father’s name. But you don’t believe me… v25-26b NLT
And to drive home the point He said, “The Father and I are one.” v30 NLT
They demanded, “Tell us!” He told them. And their response?
Once again the people picked up stones to kill him. v31
Brick walls! What more could He do than what He had done? He did not give up but kept answering their questions. Today we have lots of questions and He still does not give up on us but continues to answer the questions we ask. Will we hear…or will we be brick walls?
July 29th, 2021, Thurs, 9:07 pm
Not “In Spite” of but “Because” of Who We Are!
Father, I hold no illusion that I am anything close to being what You want me to be. Often, I feel that it is one step forward and two steps back, but…in the midst of it all, You remain. You are faithful. May I clearly see Your reality. May it give me a burning within to press forward step by step to be who You created me to be. Amen.
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I feel that I need to address something that was brought to my attention by a dear pastor friend of mine, who interestingly enough – I have never met! He is a friend of my parents who is affiliated with the church they attend. He is a blogger, as well, and we have encouraged each other back and forth via Facebook Messenger for some time now. I pray that at some point Bob Krauss and I actually get to meet, face to face!
Anyway…he pointed out something I said in yesterday’s post (The Blame Game) regarding God loving us in spite of who we are and what we do.
Many of us have had parents and/or are parents who would do just about anything for their children because of their love for them. Just because a child decorates the living room walls with crayons, do we stop loving them? No, we may correct them, but we still are glad to have the opportunity to tuck them into bed that night. Just because a child seriously damages the family car, do we stop loving them? No, we are grateful to still have them with us. A parent after God’s own heart can’t just stop loving their child. They may be brought to tears because of the pain they suffer due to a child’s rebellion no matter how they get or what they do…but we still love them…prodigals and all. We love our kids not in spite of who they are but because of who they are! They’re our kids – kids of our blood, or kids of our heart – they are our kids…well because they are our kids! By birth, adoption, or guardianship they have our hearts, and whether they want to admit it or not we have theirs, too!
As parents, we are not content to allow our children to remain where they are. As newborns, we celebrate their first steps, their first words, and on and on! We want them to grow. We rejoice with them in every victory and weep with them in every defeat. Parenting is all about bringing a life into this world and them helping them to become who God created them to be!
We are the parents we are because our loving, heavenly Father is the parent that He is to us! We may not be the perfect parents He is but once again, as my pastor-friend Bob says, God does not love us “in spite” of who we are but rather “because” of who we are! He sacrificed Himself for us so we could be more than we presently are, but He adores us because He made us — just like any good and loving parent would!
We love, because He first loved us. 1 John 4:19 AMP
Lord Jesus, may we follow in Your footsteps to abide in our Heavenly Father’s presence. May we honor His will for our lives. He knows what we can be…if we will just let Him guide and direct us. Amen!
July 28th, 2021, Wed, 9:11 pm
The Blame Game
Father, I am ready to come together with You. I pray that You will keep my heart and mind attuned to what You would have me think and write. Amen.
John 10:17-21 (<<click here to read the passage)
Excuses, excuses – one of the harder things to find today is someone who will take responsibility for their own faults and failures. I totally realize that horribly bad things happen to us, and they most definitely do impact us. Many things contribute to who we are and how we act. But ultimately it is our choice as to what we do with those things. We can have the worst childhood and have had the worst acts committed against us. But we chose to let those things drag us to the depths and misery or refuse to do so.
Another thing we like to do is to see some atrocity and blame someone for it. We see someone hurt or abused, and immediately we begin pointing fingers at the guilty. Yes, sometimes it is deserved. Many times, it is blatantly obvious who is at fault and who should be held accountable.
A quick reply to the question of who was responsible for Jesus’ inhumane treatment leading to His humiliating death, would bring about the answers of the Pharisees and the Roman government – personified in Pilate. But can we blame them? Were they guilty? Most definitely. But in the end, they just did what humans do. We are awful. We are cruel. And who but God alone knows us…I mean really knows us. In all honesty, He knows us better than we know ourselves. It is most bittersweet that He loves us in spite of who we are and what we do. (See this post for a correction of this last statment!)
“The Father loves me because I sacrifice my life so I may take it back again. No one can take my life from me. I sacrifice it voluntarily. For I have the authority to lay it down when I want to and also to take it up again. For this is what my Father has commanded.” vs17-18 AMP
Today’s passage opens our eyes to the fact that no one took Jesus’ life. He voluntarily sacrificed Himself. It was His call. He could have refused to do it. As the old song goes, “He could have called ten thousand angels…” but He didn’t. Jesus laid down His life…and Jesus took it up again. The Father commanded that it be that way. They played their respective roles, but in the Father’s perfect timing Jewish and Roman leadership did exactly what God knew they would do. Remember, He knows us through and through. We are selfish. We go to great extents to make sure we get what we want. No one gets in our way. We will trample down whomever we need to assure that we do…even God incarnate Himself.
If anyone should be blamed, we all should take that blame. If I had not sinned. If you had not sinned, Jesus would have had no need to lay his life down for us. But we did and He had to.
The Apostle Paul clearly stated in Romans 3:23,
For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. NLT
So, enough of the blame game. Our perfect and holy God extends to each and every one of us forgiveness. It cost Him dearly, but He gives it freely! All praise to our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!
July 27th, 2021, Tues, 9:44 pm
Am I a Fake?
It’s just been one of those days Father, and I humbly sit in Your presence this evening. I am oh so grateful that Your marvelous grace and mercy grant me the privilege of doing so. All praise goes to You, Heavenly Father.
John 10:14-16 (<<click here to read the passage)
How often are we influenced by an out-of-line perspective? Even those of us who hold that we are abiders of true faith. Are we? Are we really? Or are we just wrapping the shroud of comforting religiosity about us and repeating over and over to ourselves, “It’s good. I’m good. Not a thing to worry about.”
I happened upon an article from The Washington Times entitled, America’s new religion: Fake Christianity. I don’t know if I agree 100% with everything that was said, but I agreed with enough of it for it to leave me a little rattled.
Take a moment and read through today’s passage – remember this is Jesus speaking.
14 I am the Good Shepherd, and I know [without any doubt those who are] My own and My own know Me [and have a deep, personal relationship with Me]— 15 even as the Father knows Me and I know the Father—and I lay down My [very own] life [sacrificing it] for the benefit of the sheep. 16 I have other sheep [beside these] that are not of this fold. I must bring those also, and they will listen to My voice and pay attention to My call, and they will become one flock with one Shepherd. John 10:14-16 AMP
The end of verse 14 once more.
My own know Me [and have a deep, personal relationship with Me]
That is surely our goal…but do we? …do you? …do I? Oh, I want it. Sometimes I feel as if I am oh, so close. But other times, life sucks me away and, at least in my mind, there goes that relationship right out the window! But the very best news of all – the Good News! – is that Jesus never gives up on me!
He laid down his [very own] life sacrificing it for the benefit of…me…
Gratitude is much too small and insignificant a word to utter in that I – one of those other sheep – have been brought into His fold.
Lord Jesus, if I go my own way, life quickly becomes empty. It may entice for a while but every time, it leads to nothingness…and death. I pray that I will listen to [Your] voice and pay attention to [Your] call. I pray that I will be genuine and not a fake. And I breathe a most solemn amen (so be it.)
July 26th, 2021, Mon, 8:29 pm